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Just leave him in there with her. They aren't the type of spider to try to intervene with. They are way too fast to try to save the Male if the female wants to eat him anyways. Best to feed her good and put him in there to get acclimated.
I'd watch out for blowing a fan on your Ts. A fan will dehydrate a enclosure in a few hours. Also tarantulas dont like their setae blowing around. 96 degrees in the shade isnt going to hurt a tarantula that has a full water dish.